THE BLOG

The Value in Taking Time to Be With Those You Love family self-care Oct 26, 2023

My last couple of blog posts have centered around my recently stepping into a caretaking role for my mom.    The events leading up to it have been rather sudden and have had a significant...

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Working Through Complicated Relationships After 50 family self-care Sep 24, 2023

It's so funny (not funny).   When we're after 50 we sort of think we've been through it all.    Seen it all.   Have navigated different things and have a full...

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Learning to Meet Our Loved Ones Where They're At family self-care Mar 05, 2023

In my career as a behavior analyst, I had the opportunity to meet and work with many parents of children on the autism spectrum.   

I watched them as they reeled after the...

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Managing Our Feelings Around the Holidays After 50 family self-care Nov 20, 2022

 

Throughout my life, I have been that annoying person who, the day after Halloween, starts playing Christmas music.   My tree is always up before Thanksgiving, much to the dismay of...

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The Juggling and Balancing Act Will Never End family redefining after 50 May 08, 2022

It's been an interesting couple of months, to say the least.

  • Our granddaughter was diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes.  We have been wrapping ourselves around that emotionally as well...
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A Generational View of the Global Pandemic family Nov 29, 2020

My 82 year old mom, who is a very social woman, moved from 4 hours away to be closer to us – right before Covid hit. She was dealing with it successfully because it was spring and summer and...

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Virtual Activity Ideas to Do With Grandchildren family the grands Nov 08, 2020

Originally published in Sixty and Me

When the pandemic quarantine began in March, I figured I could do anything for two weeks. Then two weeks turned into four and four into eight, and here we are...

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HOW TO PRIORITIZE YOURSELF AS A COUPLE WHEN YOU HAVE A SENIOR PARENT OR ADULT CHILD LIVING WITH YOU family Oct 08, 2020

Originally written for and published in Sixty and Me

About five years ago, my husband approached me and asked me how I would feel about having his mother come live with us. We had only been married...

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HOW MY RELATIONSHIPS HAVE CHANGED DURING THE PANDEMIC family self-care the grands Sep 05, 2020

I woke up that fateful day in March to a panicked group of parents and co-workers. I work with kids on the autism spectrum and at 4 o’clock that morning, our county schools suddenly made the...

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The Role of a Supportive Spouse When Redefining After 50 family redefining after 50 Aug 20, 2020

Many of us after 50 are at a point where are stopping to take a look at our past 50 years, looking ahead, and asking ourselves “What’s Next?” We’ve got years ahead of us and...

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WRITING A LETTER TO YOUR DECEASED SPOUSE – HOW AND WHY WOULD YOU DO IT? family Aug 08, 2020

As published in Sixtyandme.com

The Covid pandemic and required quarantine have been tough on all of us, there is no question. But I dare say they has been particularly hard on those of us who...

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An Open Letter to my Grands family Jul 23, 2020

Dear five favorite little people on the planet: 

I always said that being a mom and raising your dads was my absolute most favorite role. It gave me so much pride and I really loved every...

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